Is there someone who does not desire to have peace of mind in their life? Today, Frank – a friend of mine who writes daily devotionals – wrote about “Making peace of mind a priority” in the coming season. As I reflected upon it, some 10 action points came to mind. I’ve seen them bring peace of mind to many (or take it away when ignored). I felt I should share them here:
- Wish others well. Do this especially those you perceive as being more successful than you.
- Pay your financial debts. Do this especially on time.
- Urgently settle conflicts with your spouse. Do this especially as quickly as possible. Forgive one another as soon as these conflicts arise – however difficult that may be.
- Have your basic material needs of life met (e.g. food, shelter, clothing, etc.). Onto this, add a heart of contentment and you will have peace!
- Greet your neighbours (if possible, every day). Always engage them in warm, authentic conversations. Give them time. They matter.
- Settle grudges with those you have offended. Do this genuinely.
- Have a practical relationship with God. Do this especially through a daily walk with Him; a lifestyle of obedience to His Word.
- Truly hate no one on earth even if you don’t like them. This includes those labelled enemies, haters and saboteurs.
- Do your best to stay in your lane. Run your race. Live a life of your own, not patterned after another’s. You are not someone else. Just be yourself — but keep becoming a better version of yourself.
- Do not excitedly make promises/pledges especially in the heat of institutional fundraisings and other interpersonal pressures. This is the same consideration as not foolishly spitting spiteful words or making unhealthy, rush decisions while angry.
I hope this makes a good reflection for you too. Instead of giving someone a piece of your mind, decide to just have a peace of mind. Like Kimberly Jones said, “Don’t let people pull you into their storm. Pull them into your peace.” Happy New YOU!
Live. Love. Lead.
#YouWillManage
